With your kids going back to school, Labor Day weekend coming up and the weather getting cooler, summer is almost over. While you are anxious to get yourself and the kids back into the routine of the school year, you may have child custody issues weighing on your mind.
Do not let the stress distract you from what should be a wholesome autumn. Here are some tips to keep in mind as the season approaches.
1. Plan your vacation schedule now
Vacations are harder to take when the kids are in school. If you wait too long before making plans and discussing them with your ex, it could contribute to more contentious arguments and your ex claiming you violated the custody agreement. Create a schedule, get your ex to agree to it and show it to the family court judge.
2. Resolve conflicts early and quickly
If your ex has an issue with your school year plans, try to fix it as soon as possible. You do not want to have drawn-out arguments as the holidays approach. This also reduces any stress of coming up with plans last minute. If you are unable to solve problems directly, you might have to get the court involved.
3. Let your children communicate with your ex
Divorce has an enormous impact on your kids. Do not take it personally if any of your children miss your ex and want to talk on the phone with him. This is only natural. Despite any hard feelings between the two of you, your children likely still love their other parent. Be open to letting your kids communicate with your ex through phone calls and video chats.
Getting started on your school year custody plans now will save you stress in the long run. If you need help modifying your custody order or coming to an agreement with your ex, contact a divorce attorney.